Every fall I begin to think about the kids birthdays. I contemplate the things I may want to make for them as gifts, and try to come up with a few party ideas so that when I ask them what kind of party they were hoping to have it isn’t so open ended. I prefer to throw out a few options and let them choose. Its less overwhelming that way. In the past this technique has worked great, but like most aspects of parenting as soon as you think you’ve got it down, everything changes.
When I approached Isaac with the idea of a ‘dance party’ with a DJ and a bunch of friends he looked at me like I was crazy. The response was, ‘Mom, I just want a small party with a few friends.’ And so back and forth we went until we settled on the idea of the Magic Castle.
Isaac chose three friends from class and a few others of all ages to join him to celebrate his birthday. We came up with the idea of this invitation together. He wanted to send a magic wand, and then drew the invitation that I would then layer the information on top of.
It was easily one of the most fun and most simple parties we have hosted. I loved having such an intimate group, and the Magic castle was entertaining for the kids as well as the adults – a rare find.
And so we provided the wands, some cards, magic top hats, mustaches, a nice brunch and a really fun morning. Next year I am going to let Isaac give me his options first. He clearly has a very good sense of who he is and what he wants at this point. As a mother, what could be better.
